Now Available by PayPal! When Self-Help Hurts: Letting Go of Seeking by Finding Yourself Are you tired of always seeking? Seeking for enlightenment, self-improvement, the fail-proof answers, relief from exhaustion? This powerful Special Report will help you begin finding, rather than seeking. The simple pursuit of transformation has the effect of making you a seeker. The message that you are not OK creates more dissatisfaction and more seeking behavior. The energy you invest in changing drains your resources for expressing that which you already are. Your unique destiny depends wholly on the full expression of your soul voices, not the perfect execution of technical skills learned through disciplined reform. You will learn: How unbalanced pursuit of self-improvement leads to never-ending seeking 5 steps to help you let go of seeking What it means to find yourself How to tolerate the new-found freedom from unrealistic demands Each person has a unique contribution to make to the world, that no other person can offer. Learn how that which you most desire - that which comes easiest to you - will guide you to your unique destiny. Find yourself by listening to your soul voices. When you finally feel comfortable in your own skin, you will stop seeking.   $19.99     Losing a partner, friend, or child through death - can cause one to shut one's heart down forever. Lives have been ruined by failure to recover from the anger and pain of irrevocable loss. This special report will show you how to honor the seemingly unbearable pain and anger that always follows loss. You will learn the stages of grief and a sequential program for resolving these stages. You will see the benefits and blessing that come from honoring your soul voices in times of grief. Visionary Soul Healing for Grief allows you to honor both the loss and the connection with loved ones who have passed on. Grief itself becomes a path for finding your self and soul. Grief bestows vision that allows you to heal yourself and become a healing presence for others. You will learn: Grieving is Healing How to Re-Member the lost loved in one in your community The power of honoring a continued sense of connection after death How to ignore suggestions to "re-invest" your feelings and energies This special report also reviews how the process of grieving changes your being in ways for the better. The process of grieving creates a soul more sensitive and more capable of seeing the ultimate meaning in the day-to-day grind. An increased sense of the fragility of life allows you to honor the sacred in each present moment.   $19.99   So much of our efforts at self-improvement demand that we become more disciplined. This special report will review the healing power of giving yourself permission rather than giving yourself more demands for reform. You will learn how to give yourself permission to forgive yourself, to say what needs to be said, to offer your love freely and to leave a relationship that is draining your energy. You will learn how giving yourself permission can heal: Your professional life Your interpersonal relationships Your struggle with weight and physical fitness Your spiritual connection Your health Our relationship to our soul creates the life events that happen to us. The way we relate to our soul will be the way the world relates to us. If we are forever disciplining and limiting ourselves, so the world responds by disciplining and limiting us. If we are generously giving ourselves permission to feel what we want to feel for as long as we need to feel, than this generosity will be reflected back to us in life events. $19.99     The Psychology of Pregnancy and Birth A woman undergoes dramatic psychological transformation during pregnancy and birthing. These transitions are "critical periods" for a woman's well-being and health. Additionally, the increased emotional sensitivity of pregnancy will intensify any existing or unresolved issues. This increased intensity offers pregnant mothers an opportunity to do dramatic psychological work that will offer life long healing. Many women find that issues that previously were buried re-surface during pregnancy with a surprising intensity. Specific issues that women must negotiate during this time to successfully prepare herself for motherhood include: marital relationship relationship with mother sexuality body image any traumatic life events This special report will offer strategies for: how to honor the changes in how you think of yourself processing anger related to the cultural devaluation of childbirth feeling emotions fluidly how to handle a partner's lack of understanding about changes transforming the baby blues $19.99   If you are running your kids around, frantic with fear that they will fall behind, they will learn to live a life motivated by fear. In evaluating what you are teaching your kids, remember the cliché that they will learn what you do, not what you say. They will pick up on the deeper vibe of how and why you are leading your life the way you are. If running around is motivated by competition with other parents, than your kids will learn the importance of keeping up with the Jones's. If you drag yourself to activities just because everyone else is doing it, you are teaching your kids to follow the crowd. They will pick up on the vibe of why they are doing what they are doing more than the purported benefits of whatever the activity is. This doesn't mean you have to sit around all day. It just means you have to do things that you love, and that stimulate you. Then your kids will learn that life is about doing what you love and exploring the world. Most of all they pick up the vibe of fun and excitement about trying something new. $19.99     Dr Lara Honos-Webb lara@visionarysoul.com 925-639-7376 Home | The Gift of ADHD | Press Room | Articles | Free Download Keynotes-Seminars-Workshops | Meet Dr. Lara | Individual Sessions   Click here for newsletter archives   © Copyright  Visionary Soul 2007. All Rights Reserved.